OUR COMMUNITY
Community guidelines
Different interests. Shared standards: adulthood, consent, honesty and respect.
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Adults only, without exception
Everyone represented, contacted or depicted must be 18 or over. No sexualised references to minors, grooming, exploitation, trafficking or material involving children. Never share suspected illegal imagery in order to report it; record the relevant link/context and use appropriate reporting channels.
Consent comes first
- No coercion, pressure, blackmail, threats, stalking or harassment. Respect a no, a changed mind and a lack of response.
- No unwanted explicit messages or images. Ask before escalating a conversation; interest in a lifestyle is not permission for any particular interaction.
- No intimate images, recordings, manipulated/deepfake depictions or private messages shared without the affected adults' permission.
Be honest and protect privacy
Do not impersonate anyone, use other people's photos without permission, advertise misleading verification or set up scam accounts. No money requests using romance, threats or false emergencies. Do not reveal home addresses, contact details, sensitive attributes or private albums to embarrass or expose someone.
Respect other members' boundaries and visibility choices. Do not evade blocks, create replacement identities to contact someone, scrape profiles or attempt unauthorised access.
Use the available safety tools
For a post or related comment, open Post options on the post, add a reason and submit the report. Use Report on a message where available. Open a member profile or connection controls to Block; review blocks under Friends.
These actions store reports and apply access restrictions. A staffed response service, full moderation dashboard and appeals workflow are not established by this app. Response targets and a public support contact still need operator confirmation. Reports do not guarantee immediate action; in an immediate UK emergency call 999.
Fair enforcement still needs operational sign-off
The operator must establish how reports are reviewed, evidence is protected, restrictions are communicated and disputed decisions can be appealed. No automated moderation, constant monitoring or guaranteed outcome is claimed here. These standards should be applied fairly without discrimination against lawful, consensual adult identities or relationships.